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The Kelly family grows

The Kelly family grows

Erin Kelly and Parker Bean didn’t set out to have a large, grand hotel wedding. They envisioned a more rustic affair in the country, surrounded by lush landscape and a big, beautiful barn. But when the invite list began creeping toward 800, Erin came to terms with the fact that her original vision might not quite work out.

Her mother, Jill, said that she came around to understanding that, ultimately, relationships mattered more. Erin’s father—legendary quarterback Jim Kelly—had too many people he wanted to include in the family’s celebration, ranging from former Hall of Fame teammates to “the man who mows our lawn,” explained Jill Kelly. “They’re all important to us.”

So they decided on the Hyatt, the only local venue that can cater to such a sizable crowd, with a rehearsal dinner at Big Ditch Brewering Company (in a full restaurant take-over). A big storm rolled in that night, blanketing the region in beautiful white snow. Later, in a true full-circle moment, Jill learned that it had been named “Winter Storm Hunter.”

“I didn’t even know winter storms got named,” recalls Jill. “It gave us peace.”


 

Erin & Parker

January 13, 2018

The Chapel at Crosspoint

It’s no secret that faith is central to the lives of the Kelly family. The power of prayer has been extolled by the family for many years, but especially recently as Jim continues to battle cancer. Their strong faith was reflected during many special wedding moments.

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Before the ceremony, six women formed a prayer circle over Erin. Her mother Jill explained that amidst the wedding chaos and excitement, the hair and makeup and hubbub, it gave them all a moment to reflect and pray about the gravity of what was about to happen—that Erin was committing, before God, to walk the rest of her days on earth with Parker.

The women were all important in a special way, and most have known Erin her whole life. They included her mother, Jill; Erin’s grandmother; her kindergarten teacher; Jill’s longtime friend (and Erin’s godmother) who was with Jill when she found out she was pregnant; their good friend and wellness coach; and a former neighbor and mentor.

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In lieu of a “first look,” Erin joined a blindfolded Parker in a room adjacent to the Chapel to share a moment of prayer alone before the ceremony began.

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The reception

Hyatt Regency Buffalo

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The father-daughter dance was especially poignant at Erin’s wedding. The two danced to Tim McGraw’s “My Little Girl,” a song that first gained significance during Erin’s purity ceremony at the age of 13. In that ceremony, explained Jill, Jim placed a purity ring on Erin’s finger, and Erin pledged to remain chaste until her wedding night.

Erin kept her pledge, and the moment came full circle when, as a wedding gift, Erin presented the ring to her husband—intending that he give it to their own daughter one day.


Sharing their story

When Erin first got engaged, her mother sought out a prayer book that would help them both prepare for the occasion of marriage.

She couldn’t find one—so she and Erin set out to write their own. With prayers taken from their own journals, plus tips and challenges to help frame the occasion and the commitment behind it, “Prayer and Planning for the Big Day” comes out December 11, 2018.


The details

Who helped the couple make it happen

Photography Nate Puhr

Ceremony The Chapel at Crosspoint

Reception Hyatt Regency

Dress Lovely Bride, with customization by Made by Anatomy

Suits Men’s Wearhouse

Hair & makeup Helen Reavey (bride) & Cielo Salon (bridal party)

Flowers Buffalo Floral Art

Cake Ohlson’s Bakery

Musician Michael Ross Nugent

Band Bob Greco Band

DJ Nicholas Picholas, Kiss 98.5

Videographer White in Revery

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A WNY lifer, I feel lucky to explore and write about the region and people I love. I'm a marketing professional, mom and the former editor of Buffalo Magazine and WNY Weddings.

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